âAFTER THE FINAL VOWâŠâ JOHN AIKEN BREAKS DOWN OVER MEL SCHILLINGâS HEARTBREAKING FINAL MOMENTS
 â In a moment that left viewers completely shaken, John Aiken broke down live on air as he recalled the devastating final moments he shared with Mel Schilling
The Married At First Sight family is in mourning following the death of Mel Schilling at age 54, with co-star John Aiken among those hardest hit.TV Guides & Reference
The relationship expert, 55, broke down on the Today show on Wednesday morning as he spoke for the first time about her death, revealing the devastating toll of losing his âpartner in crimeâ.

John Aiken, 55, broke down on the Today show on Wednesday morning as he spoke about his colleague and friend Mel Schillingâs death â revealing the devastating toll of losing his âpartner in crimeâ
Despite her illness, he said Melâs spirit never dimmed â a quality that defined both her professional and personal life.
âOne of the things about Mel is that she lights up a room. Sheâs got this real vitality and energy,â he said.
âWhile you might see her, you know, giving a serve to one of the couples on the couch during a commitment ceremony, off set we would often sing, dance, sheâd FaceTime her daughter and weâd sneak in the odd lolly or two,â he said.
âWe had a lot of fun together⊠she was always someone who made things a lot lighter. She was very much a glass half full person. We loved her.â
Reflecting on her legacy, John described Mel as a âreal role modelâ and âvoice of reason,â revealing he felt âvery privilegedâ to have worked alongside her for a decade.

âIâm not going to lie, this has been a very, very difficult day for me and basically everyone in the MAFS family and her nearest and dearest. Itâs tragic and it happened very quickly,â a visibly shattered John said

Reflecting on her legacy, John described Mel as a âreal role modelâ and âvoice of reason,â revealing he felt âvery privilegedâ to have worked alongside her for a decade
âShe loved love. She was completely committed to the participants. She wanted everyone to get the fairy tale,â he said.
In a final, poignant reflection, John shared what he believes Mel would want people to remember.
âYouâve got to keep moving forward, keep fighting, lean on people that are really close to you, and tell them that you love them,â he said.
âShe just kept fighting, never complained and just pushed forward.â
Trisha passed away in September 2023 at age 72, three years after leaving the franchise.
John had broken the news of her death on social media, posting: âIâm heartbroken and devastated that my friend and dear colleague Trisha has passed away.â

Melâs death marks the second profound loss John has endured in recent years, following the passing of another close friend and colleague, MAFS co-star Dr Trisha Stratford (centre)

Trisha passed away in September 2023 at age 72, three years after leaving the franchise
âWe shared an amazing seven seasons of MAFS together. She loved everything New Zealand, relationships, the All Blacks, the Black Caps, French wine and travelling the world. Iâll miss you Tish.
âThank you for all the memories.â
The clinical neuro-psychotherapist, who hailed from New Zealand, joined the Nine show in its first season in 2015, starring alongside relationship gurus John and Sabina Read.
Johnâs heartbreaking appearance on Today came hours after he penned a lengthy tribute to Mel on social media.
Alongside photos of one of their first TV appearances together alongside one of their last, John wrote: âWhere it began and where it ended.
âItâs with great sadness and heavy heart that today I lost my dear friend and fellow MAFS expert Mel Schilling. I am heartbroken, devastated and finding it hard to breathe.
âShe came into my life 10 years ago and together we rode this juggernaut, being there for one another through it all. Nothing could prepare us for what lay ahead, but she was always in the fox hole with me.â

Johnâs heartbreaking appearance on Today came hours after he penned a lengthy tribute to Mel on social media. Alongside photos of one of their first TV appearances together alongside one of their last, John wrote: âWhere it began and where it endedâ
He said it had been âa privilege and an honourâ to sit beside Mel on the MAFS couch, praising her warmth, honesty and unwavering commitment to the participants, adding that âat her core she loved loveâ.
John also offered a rare glimpse into their off-screen bond, recalling how they would âsing, dance, face time her daughter and eat lolliesâ before filming â and how Mel would âsquealâ and run to hug him each time he arrived on set.
He went on to describe her as a devoted mother and wife, calling her âloving, committed, loyal, fun and so very very kind,â and a role model whose family was always her driving force.
But it was the reality of her loss that hit hardest.
âItâs not fair that my partner in crime is gone,â he said. âI am unravelling just thinking about it.â
In a final message, John thanked Mel for everything she had given him over the past decade, admitting he is âdistraughtâ as he comes to terms with her passing.
He ended by sending his love to her husband Gareth and daughter Maddie, adding that âthe MAFS universe weepsâ for a woman he said was truly âone of the good onesâ.

Melâs husband Gareth (right) announced on Tuesday that the dating expert had died just days after revealing her cancer had spread to her brain
Melâs husband Gareth announced on Tuesday that the dating expert had died just days after revealing her cancer had spread to her brain.
In a lengthy statement, he spoke of her love for him and their daughter Madison, 10.
Mel helmed the expert panel of the Australian franchise for 12 seasons and also appeared in five series of the UK version on Channel 4.
But she had announced she would be stepping back from filming earlier this year, in order to prioritise her family and health.
John stepped in to replace her for the remainder of the latest UK series, as filming was underway.


